Oh-Bla-Di

It’s seems impossible that Noah is already two months old.  But, on the other hand, it feels like he’s been here forever.  So much has changed in the last nine weeks.  He’s bigger, he’s more alert, he smiles and plays.  But, he’s still very much a newborn baby – one who needs lots of sleep and lots of eating to be happy and content.

Noah started daycare three weeks ago and has been doing great.  He’s finally figured out how to eat from a bottle and he’s slowly getting better at sleeping there.  Turns out there’s a big difference in noise levels between our house with no one in it (like he had for my 6 weeks of maternity leave) and an infant daycare room with 5 other babies.  Every day, though, he sleeps a little more while he’s there…and is awake for a little more playtime when we get home.

Noah’s getting to be a champ at holding his head up.  Now, when you hold him in a sitting position, he can hold his head and follow your face around as you talk to him.  It’s sort of like hide and seek without all the running around.  

Maybe it’s lost in the fog of her newborn-ness, but I don’t remember Ava being such a smiley baby as Doozy is.  This little guy will smile at you for just about anything and they are whole-face smiles.  His eyes crinkle up and he opens his mouth into a big grin.  He’s got a dimple in both cheeks and, man, his smiles melt my heart.  He’ll even giggle a little when he wants to play instead of eat.  Totally cute at four in the afternoon…less so at five-thirty in the morning.

Speaking of five-thirty in the morning, I almost always see the little dude about then.  He’s been doing a great job sleeping.  There’s usually even a seven hour stretch in there somewhere!  He does wake up at some point between two and three a.m., though, so Mommy still doesn’t sleep all the way through.  I’m hopeful, though, that that glorious day is soon to arrive.

We had Noah’s two month well-baby appointment yesterday.  He weighed in at 12 lbs, 4 oz, and was 23.5 in. long.  He gained about two pounds and two inches from our last visit.  Not bad for a month’s work!  He also got two shots yesterday…one in each leg.  He gave a good little cry after both, but settled down pretty quickly.  Dr. Faro says he’s totally normal and developing just as he should.  Our next big milestone to watch for is the rolling over.  I keep forgetting how quickly the time between these stages goes!

We’re totally loving having this chill, happy kid as part of our family.  Keep those smiles coming, baby boy!

Here are five fun things for Friday.

Fun Thing #1:

Ava and I have become addicted to a new-to-us music group called Rabbit.  You should go give it a listen.  It’s happy, it’s peppy, it makes a 30 mile commute a sort of fun thing to do.  My favorite is Ladybug.  This album is awesome because Ava will even let me sing along with it.  

Fun Thing #2:

At the same time we discovered Rabbit, Ava and I also started digging a kids’ album called Do Fun Stuff, Vol. 1.  Rabbit does several of the songs on this compilation, too.  Seriously fun, not annoying kids music.  Ava’s favorite is “Potty Time”!  She knows all the words and sings along.  It’s the second song on the album…she only listens to the first song because I make her wait to get to “Potty Time.”

Fun Thing #3:

We’ve had super good luck with Craigslist in the last two weeks.  We scored a bike for Ava’s birthday for $10 and a double jogger stroller for $50.  The bike is going to get a fresh coat of paint, a new seat, a bell and a basket this weekend.  The jogger was the key element to a very fun walk the kiddos and I took earlier this week.  Hooray for turning others’ old stuff into our new fun stuff!

Fun Thing #4:

Ava can spell her name.  She did that for me for the first time last night.  And, now, she can write it too!  She learned that within five minutes of spelling it for me.  So, so proud of our smart girl.

Fun Thing #5:

The boy, he talks.  And smiles.

Matt and I watched a TON of the newer Dr. Who series this summer.  In the week or two before Noah was born, we watched an episode called “Blink.”  It was one of the creepiest of the dozens we watched, but the basic idea was that if these two people looked away from these weeping angel statues (which were really some sort of alien thing) then the angels would get them.  The message of the episode was “Don’t blink.  Blink and you’re dead.”

Lately, I’ve been feeling like we’re in a “don’t blink” season of our lives.  Babies grow up so fast.  Noah is going to be eight weeks old on Friday.  And, in exactly one month, Ava will be three.  Is it just me or is time actually going faster?  There’s no way that our first baby is 30 days from three years old.  And, seriously, my newborn is turning into a baby more quickly than I can process.  We may not have any alien angel statues coming after us, but substitute “missed memory” for “angel” and the story is the same.  Blink and you miss it.  Blink and the alien creature called parental guilt will swallow you whole.

I’ve been trying to slow down and be present, especially when the kids are awake – to recognize actively the moments I won’t want to miss.  With work and daycare schedules, it’s so easy to get sucked into the need-to-do’s around here when we get home.  It’s harder to just let go and be present with two than with one.  It’s harder to do while working than it was when I had more moments at home.  It’s harder when I’m home alone.  I don’t intend to make excuses, but to acknowledge the challenges.  It’s hard to not blink.  I’m in a staring contest with my own life.

So, for the me who will be reading this blog in a few years or months trying to remember what these months and days were like, here are some of the moments driving me to keep my eyes open.

Ava riding the carousel before seeing Beauty & the Beast at the Outdoor Movie.

Sweet, sweet baby smiles.  I get one like this after I feed him.  His way of saying “thanks,” I think.

A first ride in a stroller together.  Ava pointed out every single Halloween decoration in the neighborhood.

A sweetheart of a sister helping her baby brother feel better with a binky.

Here’s to trying not to blink.  I’m certain it will be worth the effort.

We’re really in the new, post-baby schedule now.  Ava’s school hours have been cut back to just 25 a week, so that means that Fridays are no longer the solo-Mommy, get-projects-done days of yore.  But, I do have a little time during naps to post an update, so here it is…in list form, of course.

1.  Noah goes to his first day of school on Monday.  I’m both sad and totally ok with the idea.  He’ll be there for five hours, four days a week…same as Ava.  The hours he’s at school will include two naps and about an hour and a half of awake time.  I’m sad to miss that hour and a half, since I know it’ll become oh so important over the next several months, but I feel ok with these hours because we’re basically paying for him to have a safe place to sleep while I go to work.  Remind me of this next week.

2.  Noah can go to school and that means that he’s six weeks old.  Seriously, where did six weeks go?  Can’t believe it’s gone so quickly.  I remember that amount of time taking so much longer when Ava was a newborn.  He’s getting so much bigger and so much more active.  He even talks to us sometimes!  He laughs in his sleep all the time, but we haven’t seen any awake laughs since he was a week old.  Can’t wait to hear that again.

3.  We finally got photos printed from the first few weeks of being a family of four.  I’ve hung them up in all the places I’ve been planning for them to be for months.  It’s so nice to see the faces of all the people I love as I walk around doing chores and stuff.  My last maternity leave project was to create some more space for photos since we have more faces and more photos we love.  I just finished this project (about 10 minutes ago) so this maybe the fastest completion-to-blog project ever.  Best part of the project is that it was completely free!  It’s not so bad to not be able to afford expensive artwork when you’ve got such priceless people to look at instead.

4.  Speaking of priceless people, on Wednesday night, I made chili-mac for dinner.  It was pretty good considering that five minutes before I started cooking I had no idea what I was going to make.  Anyway, Ava was having none of it.  So, I made her sit at the table until she ate the small portion I pushed to the side of her plate.  An hour and a half later, she still hadn’t eaten any.  She had, however, conducted several circle time sessions with her imaginary students.  Can’t punish a kid with an overactive imagination by leaving her alone.  She just makes up friends!

“Ava, what does a three-year-old look like?”

5.  Matt’s been at work until at least 6:30 every night this week, but he was home a couple of mornings to help out with that end of the deal.  Can’t decide which I prefer – help in the morning, especially after a fairly sleepless night, or help in the evening after a long afternoon with the kiddos?  If I’m really honest, I’d have to say that I want both.  It would be awesome to actually see him in the morning and still know that the kids will see him before going to bed at night.  Maybe at the next job…

And a bonus #6…

While I was upstairs feeding Noah just now, Ava was down the hall settling in to a nap by singing to herself.  Someone rang the doorbell and set Libby off.  Being trapped under a tiny human, there wasn’t a thing I could do about any of it.  Ava’s response to the barking?  She started howling.  Yay for Fridays!

Happy weekend, everyone!

Ava’s had a pretty major break through on the creative front in the last few days.  Her imagination has always been really, really active and we’ve known for a long time that there are some major creatures banging around in there.  We just haven’t ever been able to see them the way she does because she couldn’t produce them.  We got close, maybe, but it’s not the same as when she makes things herself.

Her art grew slowly over the weekend. It started with a whale.  Matt & I were ecstatic because, you guys, it actually looks like a whale!

So.  Then Whoozy moved on to people.  Ava’s started drawing her family…as monsters.

That’s Mommy on the left, Ava on the right, and Daddy is the little blob at the top.  Noah has not yet made the ranks of either family or monster…not sure which yet.

She’s also working on drawing some of her favorite characters.  Here’s Quack from Mommy & Daddy’s favorite cartoon.

She’s working on Chirp and Peep, too, but seems a bit intimidated by the need for a beak and wings.  I’m certain, though, that those pictures will be coming soon.  We take our art seriously around here, folks.